Why clothes and bedding can feel uncomfortable
Fibromyalgia syndrome causes widespread pain, and many people with the condition become more sensitive to touch. Things that most people barely notice, such as a waistband, a seam or the weight of a duvet, can start to feel irritating or even painful. Pain from touch or pressure that would not normally hurt is called allodynia.
How much this affects you will vary, and it may change from day to day. Small changes to your clothes and bedding may help you feel more comfortable. It is worth experimenting with what you already own before buying anything new or specialist.

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Close-fitting clothes can press on painful areas, including the waist. Looser styles may reduce pressure, although some people prefer soft, close-fitting clothes that do not move against their skin.
Things that may help include:
- skirts and trousers with drawstring or soft elasticated waists, so you can adjust the fit
- trousers and skirts with a wide, soft waistband; some maternity styles may also feel comfortable
- loose dresses and tops in light fabrics, especially in warmer weather
- buying a size up to avoid tight spots around the shoulders, hips or waist
- clothes with fewer fastenings, or with larger buttons, larger zip pulls or magnetic closures if your hands are stiff or painful
If you have an implanted medical device, such as a pacemaker, check with your device clinic or the manufacturer before using magnetic fastenings.
If practical, try clothes on before buying. Sit, stand and bend to check for pressure or rubbing as you move. If you shop online, look at the returns policy first.
Scratchy labels and thick seams can also be a problem. You can cut labels out, choose garments with printed labels, or look for seam-free designs.
Getting dressed can take a lot of energy. Sitting down to dress, allowing extra time and using dressing aids may make it easier if you have fatigue, stiffness or balance difficulties.
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Underwear, socks and fabrics
Underwear is a common source of discomfort. Pants and tights that grip around the waist can press on tender areas, and socks with tight elastic may leave marks and cause aching around the ankles and calves.
Finding what suits you can take some trial and error. You might try:
- pants with a wider, softer waistband, or styles that sit lower on the hips
- non-wired or soft-cup bras, or bras that fasten at the front
- loose-top or "comfort" socks with gentle elastic
Not every symptom will be caused by fibromyalgia. Seek medical advice about new or persistent skin changes, swelling or pain that is different from your usual symptoms.
Soft, lightweight fabrics may feel more comfortable. Cotton, silk, linen, bamboo-derived viscose and soft synthetic fabrics are all options. The weave, seams and finish can matter as much as the fibre itself, so choose fabrics that feel comfortable against your skin.
Wearing layers lets you add or remove clothing easily if you get too hot or too cold. Washing new clothes before wearing them may help remove residues. If detergents seem to irritate your skin, consider a fragrance-free product and follow the washing and rinsing instructions.
Bedding and getting comfortable at night
Poor sleep is common with fibromyalgia, and discomfort in bed can make it worse. A heavy duvet can feel like pressure on sore muscles and joints. A lighter duvet, or several thin layers you can adjust during the night, may be more comfortable. Soft, breathable sheets and pillowcases can help you avoid overheating.
There is no single mattress type that suits everyone with fibromyalgia. Look for a balance of comfort and support, and try different options where possible. A topper can soften a firm mattress, but it will not fix one that is sagging or damaged. Extra pillows to support your knees, back or arms may ease pressure on painful areas.
Changes to bedding may improve comfort, but they will not necessarily solve sleep problems. If you keep struggling to sleep, talk to your GP.
If everyday tasks like dressing are difficult, an occupational therapist may be able to suggest aids and practical changes. Ask your GP practice about local occupational therapy services. Depending on where you live, you may also be able to contact your council, health and social care partnership, or Health and Social Care Trust directly. The NHS fibromyalgia pages and the charity Fibromyalgia Action UK also offer information and support for living with the condition.
I wanted to ask if anyone with the condition has the trouble of putting clothes wrong! Not due to pain and discomfort but actually putting clothes on inside out znd back to front?
Thankyou
Sadly I know more women than men get it but as a man the clothing is aimed at women.
I sadly have gone the opposite way with my weight I’ve lost almost 4 stone so buying a size bigger don’t help. Also a man in a suit for work that’s to big looks silly. What advice can be given for us? Am only just keeping my job I work full time as I don’t want this to beat me. And don’t want to be on benefits as I know being at home I won’t do as much. Being in the lock down has proven that. Am on my feet 8-9 hours a day am worn out most of the time. But love my job.
A few months later I'm still suffering some effects that feel like an aftermath of a prolonged poisoning, but the dizziness morning nausea, skin hives are waning. I feel way different in my mind and even have some personality changes..have some hope, energy and libido I didn't have with that bed. So I'm totally convinced of how toxic chemicals in modern day items that I never knew about or suspected can be. I know they are all over, but being in my mattress, no matter how many layers I put between me and it they got in my skin and my body. It's truly scary and just a warning to anyone else out there looking to buy comfort with a cost of furthering your already troublesome body/symptoms.
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